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Documentation & sense-making

The record that helps you
understand what you're
living through

Clarity lets you document difficult experiences, understand what's happening — in plain language — and build a professional record you can take to an attorney, therapist, or court.

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Encrypted & private
Safe exit on every page
Solo use — no other party required
Personal record — confidential19 Apr 2026
Arrived late again — disputed the agreed time
14 Apr 2026 · High severity · Children present
GaslightingBoundary violation
Clarity insight — only visible to you
“This is gaslighting — denying an agreed arrangement and placing blame on you. It's the fourth time this pattern has appeared in six weeks.”
Pattern detected: boundary violations cluster around Sunday handover days. 5 of 7 incidents occurred on Sundays or Mondays.

The gap nobody fills

Most people are managing with the wrong tools

Without Clarity, people in difficult situations piece together their own systems — none of which hold up when it matters.

01
No language
People experiencing gaslighting, DARVO, or coercive control often can't name what's happening. Without a name, it's almost impossible to explain to a professional.
02
No structure
Screenshots and diary entries aren't useful to an attorney. They need dates, behaviour types, context, and a narrative — not a folder of images.
03
No patterns
Individual incidents feel isolated. The pattern — escalation after court filings, violations clustering around handover days — is invisible without aggregation.
04
Existing tools require two parties
OurFamilyWizard and AppClose require the other person to be on the platform. They're for co-parenting logistics, not solo documentation of ongoing harm.
What people are using today
✕Screenshots in camera roll — disorganised, unsearchable, easily deleted
✕Google Docs — no structure, no analysis, not court-ready
✕Memory alone — unreliable under stress, challenged in proceedings
✕WhatsApp to a friend — not private, not structured, not professionally usable
Who Clarity is for
“Something feels wrong but I can't explain it”
Free tier — start writing it down safely
“I know what's happening — I want it named”
Insight tier — AI behaviour naming and pattern detection
“I'm preparing for or already in proceedings”
Pro tier — court-ready exports and certified records

How it works

Four steps. Your pace.

Start with a single entry. The picture builds from there.

01

Log what happened

Write it in plain language. Add the date, who was there, what was said, where you were. Upload screenshots if you have them.

Free
“He denied we'd agreed a 3pm collection and said I was making it up.”
02

Understand it

Clarity's AI reads your entry and names the behaviour — in plain language. Gaslighting, DARVO, boundary violation. You don't need to know the words first.

Insight
“This is gaslighting — denying an agreed fact and placing responsibility on you.”
03

See the pattern

Over time, patterns emerge. The heatmap shows when things escalate. Pattern detection shows what incidents have in common across weeks and months.

Insight
“Boundary violations cluster around handover days. Incidents increased after the March filing.”
04

Share professionally

Generate a court-ready PDF, therapist briefing, or certified timestamped record. Share securely with your legal team. Everything dated, structured, and professionally formatted.

Pro
Court-ready PDF · Therapist summary · Certified records · Secure share

What's included

Everything you need.
Nothing that exposes you.

Designed from the ground up for people in high-stakes situations. Every feature has been thought through with safety and usability under stress.

AI behaviour naming

After you log an incident, Clarity reads your description and names the behaviour in plain language — gaslighting, DARVO, coercive control. You don't need to already know the vocabulary.

Insight tier

Pattern detection

Clarity surfaces clusters in your record over time — escalation around legal filings, violations on handover days, late-night message patterns. Individual incidents that felt isolated become a visible story.

Insight tier

Court-ready exports

Generate a structured, professional document an attorney can act on immediately — dated, behaviour-tagged, with severity noted and evidence indexed. No more arriving at a legal appointment with a folder of screenshots.

Pro tier

Certified timestamped records

Pro tier records are cryptographically timestamped and hash-verified. Each message and entry is tamper-proof — designed to meet business records standards for court use.

Pro tier

How we compare

Built for something the others weren't

OurFamilyWizard and AppClose are post-separation communication tools. Bright Sky is a crisis safety directory. None of them help a single person understand and document an ongoing situation before they're ready for formal action.

The market gap
Co-parenting tools assume the situation has already stabilised. Crisis tools assume you're in immediate danger. Clarity is for the vast middle — people trying to understand and document something that's ongoing.
“The tool that gives people language for their experiences.”
FeatureClarityAppCloseOurFamilyWizardBright Sky
Solo use — no other party neededYesNoNoYes
AI behaviour namingYesNoNoNo
Pattern detectionYesNoNoNo
Court-ready professional exportYes (Pro)LimitedYesNo
Works before separation or proceedingsYesNo

Behaviour taxonomy

15 named categories.
Plain language. No jargon required.

Clarity recognises 15 behaviour types, each with a definition and real-world examples. You don't need to know these words before you start — the AI learns them for you.

Gaslighting
Denying agreed facts · making you question your memory
DARVO
Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender — flipping blame
Boundary violation
Late collections · unannounced contact · ignoring agreements
Coercive control
Isolation · monitoring · humiliation · threats
Parental alienation
Undermining your relationship with your children
Fabrication
Provably false statements · broken promises · concealment
Financial control
Withholding payments · using money as leverage
Order breach
Violating court orders or mediation agreements
Litigation abuse
Using legal proceedings as a tool of harassment
Communication abuse
Threatening messages · harassment · excessive contact
Case summary — confidentialGenerated 14 Apr 2026
Confirmed patterns
Boundary violations cluster around agreed handover days. 8 of 14 incidents in the past 6 weeks occurred on Sundays or Mondays — the days before or after the custody exchange.
Recent incidents
Arrived 45 minutes late for handover. Disputed agreed collection time and stated I had “made up” the 3pm arrangement.
11 Apr 2026 · Gaslighting · Boundary violation · High
Sent 14 messages between 11pm and 1am demanding confirmation of school holiday arrangements already agreed in writing.
8 Apr 2026 · Communication abuse · Medium

The document your attorney actually needs

Most people arrive at their first legal appointment with a folder of screenshots and a head full of stress. Clarity generates the structured, professional document that lets your attorney get to work immediately.

Every export is dated, timestamped, and formatted for professional use. The Pro tier adds certified records designed to meet court business records standards.

Court-ready PDFTherapist briefingCertified recordsSecure share linkPersonal narrative

Pricing

Start free. Upgrade when you're ready.

No annual commitments. No hidden fees. Cancel any time. Free accounts for those in financial difficulty — apply on sign-up.

Free
Free
$0
forever

  • Unlimited dated entries
  • People you define yourself
  • Optional tags from a built-in list
  • Timeline with simple filters
  • Black & white PDF export
  • Encrypted storage in transit and at rest
  • Quick exit on every screen
Get started free
Insight
Insight
$9
per month
$108 per year when billed annually

  • Everything in Free
  • Witness behaviour naming
  • Pattern detection
  • Insights workspace
  • Frequency heatmap
Pro
Pro
$17
per month
$204 per year when billed annually

  • Everything in Insight

Built for the people who support them

Used by attorneys, therapists, and advocates

Professionals working with survivors tell us that Clarity changes how they start a case. Clients arrive with structured records instead of shoeboxes of screenshots. The pattern analysis does in minutes what used to take hours of billable prep time.

We've built a dedicated dashboard for professionals who want to work directly with client records — with read-only access, AI case summaries, and bulk export built in.

Learn about Clarity for professionals
Family law attorneys
Clients arrive fully briefed. Court-ready exports formatted for immediate use.
Therapists & counsellors
AI-summarised briefings let you understand the full picture before session one.
Domestic abuse advocates
Refer clients directly and track case development with a secure dashboard.

Why it matters

The moment things
start to make sense

“I'd been trying to explain it to my attorney for months. The first time I showed her the Clarity summary, she said 'now I understand exactly what we're dealing with.' That changed everything.”

Parent in custody proceedingsTexas, US

“Having a name for what was happening to me was more important than I expected. Seeing it written out — 'this is coercive control, this is gaslighting' — was the thing that finally made me take it seriously.”

User, Clarity InsightLondon, UK

“I recommend Clarity to clients who come to me mid-dispute with a mess of screenshots and no structure. It does in a weekend what would take us several billable hours to organise.”

Family law attorneyCalifornia, US

Common questions

Things people ask
before they start

Is Clarity safe to use if my partner might check my phone or browser?+

Every page of Clarity has a safe exit button — a single click immediately redirects to a neutral website using browser history replacement, so the back button won't return to Clarity. We recommend using a private browser tab and a device your partner doesn't have access to.

Will the AI make a diagnosis or tell me I'm being abused?+

No. Clarity names behaviours — it does not diagnose people or situations. Witness tells you what a behaviour resembles based on established definitions, not what your situation definitively is. You are always in control of what gets confirmed as a pattern in your record.

Do I need the other person to be on the platform?+

No. Clarity is designed for solo use. Unlike OurFamilyWizard and AppClose, you can build your entire record alone. The other party is never notified or involved unless you choose to use the Family Channel add-on.

Are my records admissible in court?+

The Pro tier generates certified timestamped records designed to meet business records standards. However, Clarity does not provide legal advice, and admissibility depends on jurisdiction and how records are presented. We strongly recommend discussing your situation with a qualified family law attorney.

What happens to my data if I cancel?+

Your data remains accessible for 90 days after cancellation, during which you can export everything. After 90 days, all data is permanently deleted. You can request immediate deletion at any time from your account settings. We do not sell or share your data.

Does Clarity work for situations other than domestic abuse?

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A personal documentation and sense-making platform for people navigating difficult relationships and disputes. Your record. Your terms.

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Safe exit — always

Every page has a single-click safe exit that redirects to a neutral website and replaces browser history — so the back button won't return to Clarity. Designed for use in unsafe situations.

All tiers

Solo use — no other party

Clarity doesn't require the other person to be on the platform. Unlike OurFamilyWizard or AppClose, you can build your entire record alone. You're in control from day one.

All tiers
No
Yes
Behaviour glossary with plain definitionsYesNoNoPartial
Free tier with genuine valueYesNoNoFree only
Monthly priceFree — $17/mo$8.99/mo each$12.50+/mo eachFree
  • Communications upload with OCR
  • Relationship summary
  • Summary Report
  • Document vault with Witness-powered search
  • Witness cross-reference across diary and documents
  • Relationship history
  • Court-ready PDF export
  • Certified timestamped records
  • Secure share link for professionals
  • Family
    Family
    $5
    add-on per month
    $60 per year when billed annually

    • Shared calendars & messaging (roadmap)
    • Expense tracking & professional access (roadmap)
    • Designed for two-account households
    • Separate Family product — Phase 2
    +

    Yes. While Clarity was designed with high-conflict relationships and custody disputes in mind, it works for anyone navigating a difficult interpersonal situation — workplace harassment, family disputes, stalking, or any context where a structured, time-stamped record matters.